I've a query with the fact that I hear folks, of any race, say things about how black males like fat white women and how the fats white ladies cant get a white man, huge tits girl naked pics so that they turn to a black man. I believe I am normally interested in, or have dated, different match people because they are concerned in the identical sports activities and activities I am involved in. 3. I'm liking this increasingly more
Sun, Sep 19, 1999 - 3:35 AM/EST
wayne I applaud the courage to ask a query you deem borderline. I've heard this from many individuals, even earlier than I met my husband......I still hear it, and do not understand it. My thoughts on the subjects. I've a feeling I am opening a can of worms with this question, but I have observed that black men appear to be drawn to me, and "heavy-set" ladies. I hope I dont offend anyone, I always wanted to ask...... 2. Not offended...
Sun, Sep 19, 1999 - 2:14 AM/EST
noreen Let's attempt to be honest and open on this group. If the query is honest, I'm not offended. I do have a good buddy that I have talks with or see a movie with who weighs 400+ pounds. However he may never do bicycle touring or hiking like I spend my weekends doing.I've by no means noticed/heard the stereotype that black men prefer overweight white women. My hope is that we can have the courage to ask the uncomfortable questions. I am a physically match individual. I'm curious to others experiences and feelings on this level. I used to be told by a member of my family that, certain members of my family think that's the reason i married a black man.

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On not understanding about sure points-America is a divided land culturally and i believe that to be fact(perhaps a subject later). This will account for why some individuals are all the time in the clicking. In order a minority tradition you need to even be in tune with what the majority is doing. Quite simply we should know what the majority does to outlive and the majority doesn't necessarily need to learn about the opposite cultural nuances to survive. All of the other cultures have their own identities however all of their identities should permit them to be ready to maintain a productive relationship with the majority culture right here in America. You've got the majority tradition("white") and you also produce other cultures together with African American culture. I think that is why typically minority group members are more aware of the rumors or extra in tune with what the majority does.

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Sun, Sep 19, 1999 - 3:37 AM/EST
wayne As regards to lovely girls- I imagine African American tradition permits for many different body ideals for girls due to its personal therapy all through time. I believe this manifests itself in the apparent constructive self image younger black lady usually have of themselves it doesn't matter what their body type. It touched me and allowed me to see that I am lovely no matter whether or not I'm a measurement 5 or a size 12. In Florida while a teenager, I was around much more African American folks then I'm in Nebraska. I have no idea why..upbringing, help of neighborhood...but I do know that seeing the men and women behave in far greater acceptance has influenced me. 8. Thanks
Tue, Sep 21, 1999 - 1:53 PM/EST
lmh This is Leslie (lmh) I don't have a lot to say about this topic so I will not attempt to make one thing come out with meaningfulness. Properly who shapes this purpose? He nonetheless considers me cute and my size was never an issue. 5. Hi Colleen
Solar, Sep 19, 1999 - 3:Fifty eight PM/EST
mms In my expertise once i first met my now husband I used to be 19, a measurement 3 and based on my husband "cute". You see we both came upon about one another then we noticed what we each seemed like...One in every of his first things he said was "I am black" my reply was "so and I'm white, is that a problem".We began off as mates and now that we've met and he has met my chidren in addition they Love him..However to my Mother her thing is Black men beat their woman and they love plus size girl. And for this I am very thankful. African American culture must educate kids at an early age that many alternative choices can be found than what's conventional or that we view within the media. Why ought to I try for some other best these same corruptors have set forth? He beloved her very much, the problem was that over the years of courting she had placed on quite a bit of weight. The girls I saw had been self assured, or at the very least they mirrored this it appeared to me. As I learn your put up I used to be reminded of a radio discuss present I had heard a number of months in the past that hit me in many ways. The present consisted of a white man, a white girl, and a black man. The black man gave an excellent hearty snigger and stated, "All of the extra to love and hold on to!" His response was so sincere and it was apparent he was honest.I had all the time been hung up about my dimension, at occasions very unhealthy in my self picture and thought that as a lady I should be skinny but curvy to be engaging. Callers wrote in to ask love recommendation and the three radio personalities responded on air with recommendation. For one I can by no means be white so there have to be another girl, a black girl, that can be perfect. After 2 children, 30 years, I am a plus size also. They seemed to have a greater awareness of who they have been and a consolation of their physique form and dimension, their inate magnificence, that I saw lacking in my self and the white girls I knew. This morning the topic was a letter obtained by a younger male who mentioned he & his girlfriend had been now engaged. The white man's response was 'dump her now', the white woman's response was anger that if he loved her why does her size matter. 6. I got the identical response
Solar, Sep 19, 1999 - 4:06 PM/EST
marian Colleen simply like you i acquired the same reaction from my household. The identical theoretical forces that formed the false notions of African American tradition. I have observed however that even at my heavy points after having youngsters, it was usually Hispanic and African American males that might still see my beauty. You fall in love with the person. I think that some "White" individuals simply do not understand what draws you to someone of one other tradition. This plurality permits for a more broad view of what is acceptable in all the pieces, not just stunning ladies. Should you might be improper about me you is likely to be flawed about other issues. I at all times attempt to clarify it like this, what if we were all born blind, how would you know what shade we have been. However to me its not the coloration of a person however the particular person inside , and that i bought to know him from the inside first before assembly the outer core. I wish to say thanks very much for "opening a can of worms" because you're serving to us get to real, honest points which might be exhausting! Perhaps their weight need not be an element of their sexuality or femininity identical to their coloration need not be. I'm additionally a plus dimension and when i first started chatting with my boyfiend(sure i met him on the web),i felt complelled to tell him that i was no Tara Banks, he replied to me that he doesnt care in regards to the physique that i have been put in but the person i'm inside. I've seen myself portrayed as a black person and it is not an correct image. Read more featured posts right here or proceed reading thread 22 from Relationship Group 7. And as i have mentioned to my family, I'm Glad and so are my kids..And if that is in order that black males love plus dimension woman, properly perhaps everyone ought to give us an opportunity cause i am not solely dealing with the inter-racial thing i'm additionally dealing with "Fat persons are lazy and not sexy at all" And Colleen you requested that query before i might and didnt take any offense to it..Thanks 7. Magnificence
Mon, Sep 20, 1999 - 9:35 AM/EST
heather Colleen,
I applaude your choice to speak truthfully. We as Individuals are fed this ideally suited of a petite white woman because the aim or culmination of femininity. The man said that he was involved of her size and her weight continueing to extend after marraige.